Mental Health

Having Positive Support From a Partner Helps Relieve Stress

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Apr 10, 2024 07:50 AM EDT

Choosing a partner in a relationship does not stop with romantic gestures and sweet nothings. It means having a partner who will stick through stressful situations and provide support whatever happens.

In a recent study, researchers highlighted the role of positive support from partners in reducing stress levels. The study, which involved 191 married couples, emphasizes how effective communication within relationships, just like hugs from a partner, can lead to lower cortisol levels, indicative of diminished stress.

The impact of positive support

Couples who perceive their partners as supportive tend to experience reduced stress levels, as evidenced by lower baseline cortisol levels. How support is conveyed appears to be crucial -- those who feel understood and cared for by their partners exhibit a more favorable stress response.

The study involved couples engaging in discussions unrelated to their marriage while their communication and cortisol levels were monitored. Results indicated that positive support skills exhibited by partners correlated with feelings of validation and care, contributing to decreased stress levels. Conversely, negative support behaviors, such as rejecting help, were associated with heightened cortisol levels and a lack of perceived support.

Lead author Hayley Fivecoat noted the significance of how support interactions are perceived. Couples who view their partners as generally supportive tend to have more positive experiences during stressful situations. This suggests that perceptions of support can influence how specific behaviors are interpreted within a relationship.

Relationship dynamics

Understanding how couples support each other during times of stress offers valuable insights into relationship dynamics and overall well-being. The study emphasizes the importance of effective communication and supportive behaviors in maintaining healthy relationships.

Future research will explore alternative methods of assessing support behaviors and their impact on stress management. Additionally, efforts will be made to include diverse couples from various backgrounds to ensure the generalizability of findings.

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