Mental Health

Common Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms and How to Stop Them

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Feb 19, 2024 03:22 AM EST

Coping mechanisms are strategies individuals use to manage stress, anxiety, or discomfort. While some coping mechanisms promote well-being, others can be detrimental to mental and physical health. Understanding these common unhealthy coping mechanisms and learning to stop them can help maintain overall wellness.

Avoidance

Avoidance is a coping mechanism where individuals try to escape or ignore stressors rather than facing them. While avoidance may provide temporary relief, it often leads to increased anxiety and creates the cycle of avoidance as it reinforces the belief that the stressor is insurmountable. 

To overcome avoidance, individuals should gradually expose themselves to the stressor in manageable doses, or seek the help of a professional to employ exposure therapy.

Emotional eating

Emotional eating is a type of coping mechanism where a person uses food to cope with emotions rather than satisfy hunger. This often leads to overeating, weight gain and guilt, further worsening emotional distress. 

To combat emotional eating, individuals can practice mindfulness techniques to become more aware of their emotions and develop alternative coping strategies like exercise, journaling, or seeking emotional support.

Self-harm

Self-harm, including cutting or burning oneself, is a maladaptive coping mechanism used to relieve emotional pain or gain a sense of control. However, self-harm only provides temporary relief and can lead to serious physical and psychological consequences. 

Seeking professional help is crucial to address the underlying issues driving self-harm and to learn healthier ways of managing emotions, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy.

Procrastination

Procrastination involves avoiding tasks or responsibilities that cause stress or discomfort. Like other unhealthy coping mechanisms, procrastination provides short-term relief, but it often leads to increased stress and anxiety in the long run. 

Breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps and setting achievable goals can help individuals overcome procrastination and build a sense of accomplishment.

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