Mental Health

Types of Coping Mechanisms and How We Use Them

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Jan 23, 2024 11:32 PM EST

From daily stressors to major life events, people employ various strategies to manage emotions and maintain psychological well-being. 

Past experiences influence how the nervous system responds to stress, and coping mechanisms develop over time. They become neural habits that regulate emotional reactions. Being the result of past experiences, people use various coping mechanisms differently.

Problem-focused vs. emotion-focused coping

Problem-focused coping involves tackling the root cause of stress directly. Individuals utilizing this strategy might seek solutions, gather information, or engage in problem-solving activities. On the other hand, emotion-focused coping centers on regulating emotional responses to stress. This may involve seeking support, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in activities that provide comfort.

For example, when facing a tight work deadline, someone using problem-focused coping might break tasks into manageable steps, while an emotion-focused approach could involve seeking support from colleagues.

Adaptive vs. maladaptive coping

Coping mechanisms may be adaptive or maladaptive. Adaptive coping mechanisms are healthier and more effective, as they contribute positively to one's well-being. These may include seeking social support, maintaining a positive outlook, or utilizing problem-solving skills. In contrast, maladaptive coping mechanisms can be detrimental, exacerbating stress and hindering emotional well-being. Examples of maladaptive coping include substance abuse, denial, or avoidance.

An example is when someone is dealing with a breakup, adaptive coping might include seeking counseling or confiding in friends, while maladaptive coping could involve excessive alcohol consumption as a form of escape.

Active vs. avoidant coping

Active coping strategies require individuals to engage directly with the stressor, taking tangible steps to address the issue. This might involve seeking information, making plans, or confronting challenges head-on. On the flip side, avoidant coping involves distancing oneself from the stressor, often through distraction or denial. While avoidance may provide temporary relief, it may not address the underlying issue.

An example here is when confronting financial challenges, someone using active coping might create a budget or seek financial advice, while an avoidant approach might involve ignoring bills and avoiding financial discussions.

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