Mental Health

4 Signs Your Relationship is Already Over

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Nov 14, 2023 02:59 AM EST

Relationships often start beautifully, but each one has a unique end to it. While the goal is to live happily ever after, most relationships come to an end when it's time for the two parties to walk away from each other. Most of the time, especially in long-term relationships, breakups do not just happen overnight. In many cases, one or both people involved have that gut feeling that their relationship is about to end.

Here are some common signs that a relationship is over:

1. Lack of intimacy

The lack of affection can be an indication that you or your partner has lost interest in the relationship. Some believe that sexual desire only lasts during the beginning of relationships. However, understanding the reason behind its absence can help you find out if the relationship will go further without it.

2. Repeated and lingering arguments

Every couple has that one argument that will come to haunt them every time there's a small issue. However, if it lasts for too long and repeated communication just won't help solve it, it might be a sign that the relationship has run its course.  

3. Lack of connection

The lack of emotional connection can be a big problem since the foundation of a relationship relies on it. Being able to open up and be yourself freely without the fear of judgment is a huge part of staying in a relationship. However, when it disappears, communication follows, and you end up losing interest in even the smallest things, like simply talking about your day with your partner. Instead, you both prefer to spend time alone. 

4. Absence or loss of interest in a common goal

Having at least one common goal keeps the relationship alive by ensuring you and your partner are on the same page. Whether it's planning for the future, traveling together, or building a potential business, sharing a goal with your partner helps build trust. Therefore, losing interest in your previous plans with your partner shows a lack of support, which can be fatal to any relationship.  

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