Mental Health

What is Inherited Family Trauma and How to Heal from It?

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Apr 08, 2024 07:00 AM EDT

Little to most people's knowledge, emotional pain, unresolved issues, and negative patterns can be transmitted from one generation to another within a family. While it may not be directly experienced by a person, the effects can still manifest in their life, influencing their behavior, relationships and overall well-being.

Inherited family trauma is reflected in various ways, such as behaviors and coping mechanisms from parents or caregivers to children. For example, a parent who experienced abuse may unknowingly perpetuate the cycle by behaving abusively toward their children. Additionally, trauma can be passed down through epigenetic changes, where environmental factors influence gene expression, affecting how stress is regulated and experienced across generations.

Identifying inherited family trauma requires a deep examination of one's patterns and behaviors. Symptoms may include chronic anxiety, depression, substance abuse, relationship difficulties, or a pervasive sense of shame or unworthiness. A person may also notice recurring themes or dynamics within their family history, such as patterns of addiction, dysfunction, or unresolved conflicts.

Healing from inherited trauma

Healing from inherited family trauma is a complex process that requires patience, self-awareness, and often, professional support. Acknowledging the presence of inherited trauma is the first step toward healing. This involves recognizing how past experiences continue to influence current thoughts, feelings and behaviors.

Therapy can also be a valuable tool in addressing inherited family trauma. A therapist can provide a safe space for exploration, help process emotions, and develop healthier coping strategies. Additionally, techniques such as mindfulness, meditation and somatic experiencing can aid in regulating the nervous system and releasing stored trauma from the body.

Breaking the cycle

Breaking the cycle of inherited family trauma is essential for creating a healthier future for oneself and future generations. This may involve setting boundaries with toxic family members, seeking out supportive relationships, and actively working to disrupt negative patterns.

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