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The Right Way to Give Constructive Criticism

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Feb 07, 2024 01:06 AM EST

Constructive criticism plays a vital role in personal and professional growth. However, delivering feedback effectively is an art that requires finesse. Understanding the dynamics of giving constructive criticism can enhance its impact.

Try the "feedback sandwich"

The "feedback sandwich" approach involves sandwiching constructive criticism between bits of positive feedback. This method begins and ends with affirmations, creating a supportive environment that softens the impact of criticism. By starting with praise, addressing areas for improvement and concluding with encouragement, individuals are more receptive to feedback and motivated to enact change.

Be specific

Vague criticism lacks clarity and can lead to confusion or defensiveness. Being specific is key in offering constructive criticism. Rather than saying, "Your presentation needs improvement," one could say, "Your presentation lacked visual aids to engage the audience effectively." This specificity helps the recipient understand what aspect requires attention, facilitating targeted improvement efforts.

Focus on actionable items, not the person

Critiquing behaviors or outcomes rather than personal attributes is essential. People tend to internalize criticism directed at their character, leading to defensiveness or resentment. By focusing on actionable items or specific behaviors, individuals can separate themselves from the feedback, making it easier to respond and act upon.

Be mindful of timing and emotions

Timing is crucial when delivering constructive criticism. Choosing an appropriate moment when the recipient is receptive and emotionally prepared can significantly impact the outcome. 

Additionally, being mindful of emotions ensures feedback is delivered with empathy and sensitivity. Emotions can cloud judgment and hinder receptiveness to feedback. By acknowledging and addressing emotions, both parties can engage in a constructive dialogue conducive to growth.

Avoid making assumptions

Assumptions can undermine the credibility of constructive criticism and hinder its effectiveness. Instead of assuming motives or intentions, focus on observable behaviors and outcomes. By sticking to facts and avoiding speculation, feedback remains objective and fosters a constructive dialogue centered on growth and improvement.

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