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Dark empaths, individuals who possess a unique combination of empathy and manipulative traits, can be challenging to identify. 

A dark empath is an individual who combines empathetic traits with elements of the dark triad -- narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. While appearing compassionate, they manipulate emotions for personal gain. This deceptive blend of empathy and darker traits makes it challenging to discern their true motives and intentions in relationships. Here are some dangerous signs that you may be dating a dark empath.

1. They appear to be empathetic, but you cannot have a deeper connection with them

Dark empaths are skilled at presenting a facade of empathy, making it difficult for their true intentions to be uncovered. From the outside, they may seem compassionate, understanding and caring. However, a key indicator is the inability to establish a deeper emotional connection with them. 

Despite their apparent empathy, there is a sense of emotional distance, leaving their partner feeling like something is missing in the relationship. This emotional barrier often shields their true nature and prevents genuine intimacy.

2. Love bombing

Love bombing is a manipulative tactic used by dark empaths to overwhelm their partners with affection and attention initially. While this may seem like an intense display of love, it serves as a smokescreen for their darker intentions. 

Once they have gained your trust and affection, the love bombing diminishes, revealing their true nature. This sudden shift can leave their partners confused, hurt, and emotionally vulnerable, setting the stage for further manipulation.

3. They rarely try to improve

Unlike individuals who genuinely care about personal and relational growth, dark empaths often resist self-improvement efforts. Their reluctance to change or address issues within the relationship may stem from a desire to maintain control or a lack of genuine concern for the well-being of their partner. This unwillingness to evolve can result in a stagnant and unhealthy dynamic that hinders the potential for a fulfilling and lasting connection.