Mental Health

What is Sexsomnia?

By Dynne C. | Update Date: Apr 29, 2024 10:33 PM EDT

Sexsomnia, a sleep disorder falling under the umbrella of parasomnias, manifests in unconscious sexual activity during sleep.

Understanding Sexsomnia

Unlike dreaming, sexsomnia behaviors occur during the deepest stages of sleep, such as delta sleep, when the brain's cognition remains deeply dormant. Dr. Carlos Schenck, an expert in sleep disorders, likens it to a sudden alarm triggering the body into action while the mind remains unaware.

The Elusive Nature of Diagnosis

Diagnosing sexsomnia poses challenges since people often remain oblivious to their nocturnal activities unless informed by their bed partners. Studies suggest that a significant percentage of the population has experienced sexsomnia at least once in their lives, with some cases persisting into adulthood. However, not all instances cause distress; some may even occur consensually between partners.

Misconceptions and Realities

Partners should not hastily interpret sexsomnia behaviors as indicative of subconscious desires or infidelity. The sleeping brain operates differently from the waking mind, rendering people incapable of consciously controlling their actions during sleep. This lack of awareness can lead to feelings of embarrassment, shame and confusion upon realization, as highlighted by clinical cases.

Exploring Triggers

Understanding the triggers of sexsomnia remains a challenge. While genetic predisposition plays a role, conditions such as obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) can exacerbate its occurrence, particularly in men. Treatment of OSA often concurrently alleviates sexsomnia symptoms, indicating a causal relationship between the two conditions.

Treatment Approaches

Treatment strategies for sexsomnia encompass both pharmacological and behavioral interventions. Medications like clonazepam can mitigate symptoms for some people, although they may come with side effects and risk of dependence. Behavioral therapies, including education on sleep hygiene, stress reduction, relaxation techniques and clinical hypnosis, offer alternative avenues for managing sexsomnia without resorting to medication.

Conclusion

Sexsomnia, while often misunderstood and stigmatized, represents a genuine sleep disorder with profound impacts on people and their relationships. By raising awareness, dispelling misconceptions and exploring effective treatment modalities, healthcare professionals strive to alleviate the burden of sexsomnia and improve the quality of life for affected people and their partners.

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